NH House Testimony

HB285

House · 2025 sessionRepublicanKilled in House

Parental mental health as custody factor

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Adds known mental health conditions of a parent to the list of factors a court must consider in determining parental rights and responsibilities.

relative to determination of parental rights and responsibilities.

Courts and ProcedureDomestic RelationsPublic and Mental Health

Status

Killed in the House — Inexpedient to Legislate · March 13, 2025
  1. Introduced
  2. House
  3. Senate
  4. Governor
  5. Law

Division of testimony

221 submissions
Support 7Oppose 213Neutral 1
Benjamin StinsonOpposeConcord, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

HB285 allows courts to consider "any known mental health condition of the parent" when determining parental rights and obligations, but doesn't require consideration of how that condition affects the individual's ability to parent. This deepens the stigma against individuals living with mental illness in this state and could cause serious harm to the families of parents whose conditions are well-controlled or irrelevant to their ability to serve as fit guardians.

Hilary BabonOpposeDurham, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

This bill essentially criminalizes people for having health issues. As a social worker for 12 years working with children in the foster care system and a former foster parent myself, had I seen my foster children’s parents treated unfairly for having a mental health condition, I would have spoken out about it. My husband and I adopted two children from the NH foster care system and we were able to work within the system rules and regulations to do what was best for the children, and not overreach and discriminate against their birth parents because of any health issues. Parental rights should only be terminated if a parent is deemed unfit, unable and/or unwilling to parent their child. I would not be surprised if most parents have dealt with mental health issues at some point in their parenting journey and to take their children away because of it would have horrific consequences for the children and the parent.

Jonathan BabonOpposeDurham, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

This bill furthers the damaging and harmful stigma around mental health. New Hampshire already has a severely underfunded and understaffed DCYF, there are also not anywhere near enough foster homes available for children. This legislation would further shame those who have sought treatment for a diagnosis that may be well managed, but still paints an unstable picture due to the unjust stigma attached by cruel and uneducated points of view. For a state that always has reunification of families as the primary goal, this is an abomination to that principle. Funding care for health of children and families should be a priority so parents can receive services and training to keep their children safe and in their homes, not wade into things that should be protected by HIPPA.

Micheline HaganOpposeBarrington, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

I am writing to express strong opposition to this bill as a citizen, a parent and a psychologist.

Margaret KonzeOpposePembroke, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

This will discourage people from seeking help or even admitting that they are struggling. If someone’s mental health issues are causing a problem with their parenting there are many remedies available to the other parent and to the state itself.

Amy SterndaleOpposeDurham, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

Passing this bill will surely increase the suicide rates among New Hampshire's youth. Please do right by our children and ask questions to learn more if you don't understand.

Amy AgostinoOpposeLondonderry, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

This bill is dangerously unfair to parents with any kind of mental health diagnosis. I myself have a depression diagnosis, but it is well managed with meds and certainly didn't prevent me from being a great parent to my children. This bill doesn't take into account how well someone functions, or how well their symptoms are controlled; it just weaponizes a diagnosis for legal purposes. Please oppose this.

Kacie Petrin EllisOpposeBrookline, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

This bill is harmful and discriminatory towards parents who have a mental illness, while also increasing stigma. Unless there is evidence that a parent’s mental health is a contributing factor to a child’s safety, this is inappropriate. There are many parents who have mental health conditions that are properly managed with medication and therapy. I experienced postpartum depression and managed to effectively parent thanks to life saving medication and supports. Having my children taken away just due to a medical condition is abhorrent and traumatic to both the family and the child. I strongly oppose of this dangerous bill.

Beth BenhamOpposeNottingham, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

While it may seem like a reasonable idea on the surface, I'm deeply afraid this bill could be used against parents and childrens' best interests.

Jon EatonOpposePembroke, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

Parents already have many legal rights and the ability to be involved in thier children’s education within current law. This bill opens up the risk of litigation costs state wide, a risk that NH cannot take with its current fiscal state

Sharon EatonOpposePembroke, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

Parents already have many legal rights and the ability to be involved in thier children’s education within current law. This bill opens up the risk of litigation costs state wide, a risk that NH cannot take with its current fiscal state

Sandy BlanchardOpposeLoudon, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

We need to be kind to all of God's creatures!

Ann WestOpposeConcord, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

I oppose this bill.

Lissa MascioOpposeConcord, NHfor NH Office of the Child AdvocateFeb 18, 2025

The OCA is opposed to HB 285, as it is unnecessary. The Courts already have the ability to consider any factor in determining the best interest of children. This new language could tend to stigmatize mental health conditions, leading to less diagnoses and adequate treatment of the same, which could endanger children, and lead to more children winding up in the child protection system.

Chrisinda LynchOpposeConcord, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

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Gabriele LiebergOpposeNewfields, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

The court should consider a person's ability to parent, rather than considering a category of illness, mental or otherwise when determining parental rights. I oppose stigmatizing people whenever possible.

Michael SilvaOpposederry, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

Mental health conditions can be manageable and should not be used in this way, i strongly oppose this gross bill

Elizabeth NelsonOpposeDerry, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

As a mother I feel strongly that decisions related to pregnancy are personal between a women and her partner and her doctor. Not every pregnancy goes as hoped for or when the woman is ready. It is presumptuous for anyone else to think they know the right answers to difficult questions without knowing the circumstances involved. Voters are not looking for politicians to help them make difficult choices for them or treat women as 2nd class citizens.

Debora HatcherOpposeDover, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

I am an independent voter in NH with a business background. I've been following various bills and watching our legislature in action recently. The volume of bills produced in our legislature is staggering. The number I see that seem to be solutions looking for a problem, designed to cause problems or attack certain citizens, or political stunts designed to look like governing vs actually governing is extremely discouraging. Family courts already have authority to consider mental health concerns when diagnosed and flagged as relevant by licensed professionals. At best, this is a waste of time better spent by our elected officials solving actual problems in NH. At worst, it is an effort to make and already traumatic experience for parents and children even more contentious by allowing the introduction of baseless accusations and personal medical information. I imagine it would also worsen the mental health crisis in our state by discouraging parents from seeking care for depression or other mental illnesses out of fear of it being used against them in a custody battle. Our courts have a hard enough time dealing with the cases before them. Our legislators should seek to be more supportive of our family courts instead of making it harder to resolve these difficult situations. People have a hard enough time dealing with mental illness. Please withdraw this bill. Thank you, Debora Hatcher

Maureen Redmond-ScuraOpposeConcord, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

This is a curiously vague bill that could undermine a parent's ability to care for a child. The courts already do a good job determining dangerousness. The biggest obstacle facing the courts is the backlog. Adding other determinant factors would merely add to that.

James HiltzOpposePembroke, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

Allowing a court to consider "any known mental health condition of the parent" as a relevant factor in determining a person's parental rights and responsibilities, regardless of the condition's impact on that person's ability to parent, does little more than to cause further damage and stigma to people living with mental illness and jeopardizes their rights as individuals.

Cindy BennettSupportRaymond, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

I support all legislation that maintain parental rights. I support this bill. Cindy Bennett, State Rep Raymond NH

WILLIAM FORTUNENeutralLee, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

We are looking for lawyers to sue the State for promoting Divorce, Single Parents that have caused children to have serious life-long problems/trauma/gender identity problems. In addition we intend to sue UNH (for teaching Women's Studies instead of teaching Social Workers how to "help" people), Divorce Lawyers, Social Workers, the Police, Feminists Orgs. TESTIMONY : HB- 285 HB-: Equal Parenting. Bill Fortune Early 1970’s, NH Founder, Fathers United For Equal Justice. Conclusion: The “tools”/methods are available to allow people to resolve their emotional problems; methods based on Dr. Harville Hendrix’s work, Getting The Love You Want. (introductions on You-tube). Children have the Right to be raised/nurtured by emotionally healthy parents. This CAN ONLY BE DONE IF THEIR TAXES/COST OF LIVING IS LOW ENOUGH SO THEY DON’T HAVE TO WORK MORE THAN 30 HOURS/WEEK ! Background: The fact that this type of legislation was not introduced about 70 years ago show just how much Society has deteriorated & how sick Society is. Note that we have known since the 1950’s that boys from father absent & female dominated dwellings have a much higher rate for juvenile delinquency. It’s only relatively recently that studies show that girls that don’t have a positive relationship with their father have more serious and more frequent emotional problems. (all the info is available vial Google search). The evidence is mounting every day; more violence, more suicide, more drug use, more homelessness, more depression, more hopelessness, more anger, more chaos; resulting in more Mass Hysteria that threatens the Nation. Girls without a positive relationship with their father generally have low self-esteem (can’t be taught by government bureaucrats), have seen no examples of how people relate in a healthy relationship and have no role models to help them choose a mate, reducing their chance & their partner's chances of achieving intimacy. When i first founded Fathers United , I soon realized that the men were so consumed with their own problems that they couldn't organize or even defend themselves or their children. Then many years later, Mike Geanoulis and a Legislator spend about 10 years getting the Guardian ad Litem Law passed. Mike didn't focus much on children's rights and refused to address any psychological issues. So, here we are today back to Sq. 1. And in some degree worse off because the Divorce Lawyers and Feminists Social Workers & other parasites along with universities like UNH, the Police, the Courts & the Politicians have helped destroy the emotionally healthy family. The Guardian ad Litem program was intended to give children a voice. It has turned into a money maker for lawyers & other parasites. Lawyers take advantage of people’s problems to make money. Many young women suffering from Broken Home Syndrome went to universities to study Social Work. Most were looking for answers. Instead of teaching how to resolve their issues & help people resolve their issues UNH taught Women's Studies, which focused on Domestic Violence & how females are victims. Then politicians got into the fight & passed laws to Control people. (Billy Clinton signed 20 laws against men.) In the 1970’s many women at Legislative hearings demanded that the Government replace the father, give them more day care, child support, alimony, No Fault Divorce & other social benefits & THEY “WOULD RAISE BETTER CHILDREN”. All this exasperated the problem, bringing us to the place today where those dysfunctional "children", suffering from Broken Home Syndrome can do like the Golden Rule thing; "Do Unto Others As Was Done To Me". Like they say, "you don't care about me, so why should I care about you". "So what if I cut your throat", who cares ??? ". After this law is passed Society needs to work on CHILDREN’S RIGHTS; the Right to be raised by 2 emotionally healthy parents instead of being housed in government run infirmaries controlled by Police. Control only leads to more rebellion & more social unrest. Fostering good Mental Health so people can be nurturing parents: Implement programs, replacing sex education, if necessary, to show children how to use their relationships to resolve their emotional problems (replace what they missed) reversing the trend of having the School System raise children from birth, being daycare centers & mental health infirmaries Controlled by police. Showing people how to resolve their issues will lead to emotionally healthy 2 parent families; less $ for "education" (lower property taxes, fewer police) and a more stable community. We also need to remove family issues from the Legal System & away from Divorce Lawyers & require that those issues, involving children be under the review of a Forensic Psychologists (also restores the Mental Health Profession) Reduces Domestic Violence and the need for Gun Laws. Note: The Guardian Ad litem was established to protect children, not for lawyers/others to make money ! I will charge them with endangering the health & welfare of children. Boys need to be taught what is needed of them to be fathers; especially what their daughters need from them. Using Dr. Harville Hendrix’s methods allows/ promotes constructive interpersonal communication, using relationships to become conscious of why we act the way they do & what our needs are; our psychological/emotional needs that we didn’t get in early childhood. Getting those basic needs met allows people to mature. Without those needs being met, people can get “stuck” for life trying to get those needs met. This causes disappointment, anger, hostility & a “fight to the death”. I call it the O.J. /Nicole Simpson Syndrome. Hendrix shows why people are attracted to the kind of people that mistreated them in the first place. Using the “tools”/information to REPLACE that mistreatment is the answer. The answer IS NOT separating people, telling them to “get over it” & “move on”. Bill Fortune, Lee, NH 603 365 0251 Get The Love You Want/Need.ORG

Stacie PickfordOpposeJaffrey, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

Mental health and how it affects parenting is not a one size fits all answer. I personally have lived experience with mental health . I have also worked through many obstacles to improve my well being , to ensure that my children have their mom at 100%.. I would be absolutely devastated and torn if was deemed an unfit mother due to medical diagnosis., this is a discriminatory bill and if passed will break apart families statewide.

Martha HennesseyOpposeHanover, NHfor MyselfFeb 18, 2025

It makes no sense to allow “any known mental health condition of the parent’ to be a factor in the determining parental rights, regardless of the condition’s impact on their ability to parent. This is a dangerous and destructive bill, and it adds to the damaging stigmas associated with mental illness. As long as a parent is functioning well and parenting effectively, it should be irrelevant whether they have an anxiety disorder or depression.